Holly Curby shared their story and experiences with us recently and you can find our conversation below.
Holly, a huge thanks to you for investing the time to share your wisdom with those who are seeking it. We think it’s so important for us to share stories with our neighbors, friends and community because knowledge multiples when we share with each other. Let’s jump in: What’s more important to you—intelligence, energy, or integrity?
For me, integrity matters more than intelligence or energy because it’s the core of who I am—both as a person and in how I live out my faith. Intelligence can impress, and energy can inspire, but without integrity, those things can easily be misused or lead in the wrong direction. My faith plays a big role in how I see this. I try to live in a way that honors God, and part of that means being honest, staying true to my values, and following through on what I say. I take my word seriously. If I say I’m going to do something, I want people to know they can count on me—whether it’s something big or small. Integrity keeps me grounded. It reminds me that success means nothing if I lose myself—or my word—along the way.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
I’m a keynote speaker, podcast host, and author passionate about encouraging others to find hope and purpose, even in the hardest seasons of life. I’m honored to be the author of Face-Lift: Embracing Hope Through Your Heartaches, which has been recognized with nine awards. It’s a deeply personal project that reflects my heart for helping others walk through challenges with faith and resilience. I also host Holly’s Highlights, a podcast that’s now ranked in the top 5% globally. It’s a space where I get to share practical tools, inspiring stories, and meaningful conversations that help people live with intention. I contribute regularly to Journey magazine by Lifeway Christian Resources, and my podcast is also featured monthly in the City Journals across Utah, which has been a wonderful way to connect with local communities. At the heart of everything I do is a desire to encourage, inspire, and equip people to intentionally live their life full of purpose—while truly caring for them along the way. Whether I’m speaking, writing, or podcasting, my hope is always to come alongside others with empathy, honesty, and the kind of support that reminds them they’re not alone.
Thanks for sharing that. Would love to go back in time and hear about how your past might have impacted who you are today. Who saw you clearly before you could see yourself?
That person was my dad. He has always been my rock—steady, faithful, and wise. He has always believed in me and spoke truth over me when I ‘ve had self doubt. My dad has this quiet wisdom about him—he doesn’t speak to impress, but when he does speak, you listen. He’s been my wise counsel through every season of life, offering not just advice, but perspective rooted in faith, experience, and love. His belief in me has given me the courage to step out in faith and the confidence to keep going. I’m so grateful that before I could fully see the path God was shaping in me, my dad did—and he walked right beside me in it.
If you could say one kind thing to your younger self, what would it be?
I’d tell her, “You are enough.” Growing up, I often felt like I didn’t quite belong—because of my beliefs, my values, and honestly, because I’ve always been a bit old-fashioned. I’ve always been an old soul—more comfortable with depth than trends, more drawn to meaningful conversations than fitting in with the crowd. I felt different, and sometimes that made me question if I was enough just as I was. That feeling only deepened when I went through a divorce, which was one of the most damaging seasons of my life. If I could speak to my younger self, I’d want her to know that despite the doubts, the pain, and the moments when she feels like she’s on the outside looking in, she is enough. Not because of what she accomplishes or how well she fits in, but simply because she is who she is—valuable, loved, and deeply seen by God.
I’d want her to hold on to that truth when everything feels uncertain or broken. To remember that God’s love doesn’t change, even when life does—and that His grace is enough to carry her through every season. She doesn’t have to earn His love or anyone else’s acceptance. She is already held, accepted, and made whole by a love that never fails.
So a lot of these questions go deep, but if you are open to it, we’ve got a few more questions that we’d love to get your take on. What would your closest friends say really matters to you?
Without hesitation, they would say my faith and my family. I’ve always said that God is my foundation and my family is my core. My faith guides my decisions, shapes my perspectives, and keeps me grounded through both the highs and the lows. It’s not just something I believe—it’s how I strive to live each day, with purpose, grace, and trust in God’s plan – doing, saying and thinking about what would bring honor and glory to God. And right alongside that is my family. They’re my greatest joy, my daily motivation, and the people who remind me what truly matters. I try to show up for them in every way I can. I think my friends would say I prioritize meaningful connection, intentional living, and the values that reflect who I am at my core.
Thank you so much for all of your openness so far. Maybe we can close with a future oriented question. What is the story you hope people tell about you when you’re gone?
I hope the story people tell isn’t just about what I did—but how I lived. And more than that, why I lived the way I did. I hope they say I lived out my faith—not just in the public moments, but in the private ones too. The quiet, unseen acts of obedience. The prayers no one heard. The grace I tried to extend when it was hard. The way I sought to honor God not just on Sunday mornings, but on ordinary Mondays too, in everyday conversations, decisions, and interactions.
So much of my heart, my walk with the Lord, and my daily striving to live with purpose has happened behind the scenes—things most people never saw or knew. And that’s okay. Because I didn’t live for applause or recognition. I lived to be faithful and to glorify God in all things. I hope they remember me as someone who walked with integrity and character, even when it wasn’t easy or popular. Someone who was far from perfect, but genuinely tried to live for the Lord—authentically, wholeheartedly, and without compromise. I hope they say I loved deeply, served quietly, and trusted God loudly with my life – especially when it came to the honor of raising and loving my children. In the end, I don’t need the story to be glamorous. I just hope it reflects a life that lived for Jesus—in everything, and in every way.
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.hollycurby.com
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollycurby/
- Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/holly-curby-95870777/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hollyshighlights
- Youtube: https://youtube.com/@hollyshighlightspodcast?si=7AdiZobxQhui_NR
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